I have been writing about the grandmothers in our family tree since August of 2012. Beginning with "A is for Anna" each entry introduced you to a different grandmother. Telling the Grandmother stories was a fun way to share my research with family and friends. Now I am looking at our Revolutionary War ancestors, their service records, the story of their families and of course the stories of their wives, our grandmothers. After all, "Who's Your Grammie?" is about our grandmothers!
Friday, November 9, 2012
V is for Harriet C. Van Wey
A note from her obituary states, "She was born on the spot where the Tioga Junction Depot now stands, a mile and a half from where she died." Harriet was born October 18, 1822 at Beecher's Island, Tioga Co., Pennsylvania. You can read the Blog post for the VanWey Homestead here.
VanWey homestead rendering circa 1850
Harriet C. Van Wey was the daughter of Henry Van Wey and his wife Elizabeth Middaugh, a daughter of Elias Middaugh. The Van Wey and Middaugh families were of Dutch descent and were among the first families to settle in the area of Tioga Co. Pennsylvania. Her older siblings were Phoebe, Sally, Hannah and John. While she was raised in a family of mostly girls, she became the mother of a large brood of boys.
When she was twenty - five years old Harriet married Frederick Hughes on June 17, 1847. Her first child, Henerietta was born several years before they were married. Once married, Harriet and Frederick didn't waste any time enlarging their family. Benjamin was born May 23, 1848 followed by Betty in 1850, Phoebe in 1852, George in 1853 and Frank in 1854. Charles Frederick arrived in 1856, then came Simeon (my great grandfather) in 1858. A little girl Harriet was born in 1860, but died young. The family was rounded out with the birth of three more boys, John in 1861, William K. in 1864 and Frederick Jeptha in 1865. I think it is safe to say that Harriet had a full time job taking care of her family.
It is said that this picture was taken about 1884. Funny none of the daughters were invited to be in the picture! The "boys" in the back row are Frederick, Frank, Charles, Simeon, John and George. In the front row are William K., Harriet, Frederick and Benjamin. The brothers were often referred to as the Hughes boys even into their adult years. They are remembered as a lively bunch and I am sure Harriet had her hands full raising them.
The stories Daisy Miller recorded in her recollections
of her father (William K.) and uncles provide a wonderful glimpse into the past. Daisy says, "All the boys slept in double beds, 2 by 2, in a large room over the
kitchen, hot in the summer, warm in the winter. Each oldest boy took
into his bed the youngest. The big farm house had a porch at the front
and back with large rain barrels to catch the warm rain. The boys used
them in warm weather to take baths."
Harriet and Frederick bought property on Button Hill where Fred started a lumber business that prospered as the family grew. The boys were kept busy and Harriet and the girls provided a hardy hot dinner at noontime. But Sundays was a day to relax. The boys liked to go to the pasture
where there were many horses and colts of all sizes. They took off all
their clothes and raced bareback - and bare - no danger of being seen
from the road, as the pasture was hidden by hills and woods.
Daisy tells that the brothers played jokes on each other constantly, but Sim played
one on himself. One Sunday in Spring, the boys, after riding in the
pasture came upon a hen sitting on eggs in a nest. The
eggs looked clean and fresh. Sim said, "Now I'll show you boys how to
suck eggs." He grabbed one from under the hen and throwing back his
head, broke the egg on his teeth and swallowed the contents - the egg
had been too long under the hen. Sim learned a lesson and his brothers
never let him forget it.
Harriet lived a long life. She died September 17, 1904 at Mitchel's Creek at the age of 81. She and Frederick are buried in Evergreen Cemetery in Tioga. At the time of her death, in addition to her twelve children, she was also a grandmother of forty-six grandchildren and four great-grandchildren. My great grandfather was Simeon who married Fannie Westlake. You must have had a wonderful sense of humor, Harriet, to have raise that bunch of boys!
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